Junk Food Sex Recovery Secrets
Healing and Detoxing From Toxic Sexual Experiences
To experience ecstatic sex people need to stop their cravings for junk food sex. They also need to recover from junk food sex experiences. Here's how.
A Quick List for Cleaning up Your Junk Food Sex Diet
- Stick to a set of values: When something is valued it is viewed as having worth. It is not easily or cheaply bought, sold, experienced, or consumed. People who want intimate sex over “junk food sex” believe that they, and their bodies, have value. And, they are more likely to attract people who value intimate sex as much as their partners so they have a greater likelihood of enjoying “a more nutritional sexual diet” together.
- Be truthful: This involves the capacity to clearly know what is wanted and unwanted in a sexual experience and to fearlessly share that with others whether they agree with what is expressed or not. Another way to be truthful is by clearly seeing and admitting to the long-term ramifications of “junk food sex.”
- Cultivate respect: Respect requires that an individual follows a set of spiritual and ethical values that is directly concerned with respecting each individual’s beliefs, views and desires. Respect does not co-exist with behaviors that involve forcing, seducing, or manipulating others along certain lines of behavior. That's why intimate sex always involves a high degree of respect because it is important after any sexual experience that the individuals involved feel good -- instead of feeling disrespected, intimidated, ashamed, or abused.
- Feel the pain: Many people mistakenly believe that after a loss of some kind it is best to just get over it and move on. Yes, positive mental statements to heal and move on are useful, but individuals often require time (usually as long as three to nine months, sometimes more) to really feel, grieve and heal at an emotional level. Escaping from emotional pain through sex may feel good at the time, but too often if that person has not healed his or her heart this kind of sex only results in a sickening feeling of embarrasment, shame, guilt, or even disgust with oneself and possibly even the other person the next morning.
- Be heartful: Much of the “junk food” approach to sex these days happens because people are operating too much out of their heads and not their hearts. Using, abusing, seducing, and manipulating others for one’s own sexual gain is harmful to both the person being used and the user. Ultimately, all “other” abuse is also "self" abuse, something it is good to remember before you jump in the sack and use sex as a means to break someone's heart, instead of helping their hearts to heal.
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