The process of finding love can become so cumbersome that some women deny themselves the romantic journey and continue to live a life immersed in a world of fantasy challenged to adjust their criteria. And as the years of searching narrow, and the eligibility of men seems to dwindle, some women even consider their ideal mate just doesn’t exist.
So what drives a woman wild?
Do Women Want Passion?
Some women say it requires a tweaked imagination, ignited passion, and the right person to motivate them. Simply the way the man looks, the way he smells, a nice smile, a great body, or a sensitive man is appealing to others. A powerful man, an intelligent man, or one who simply has a job turns them on. Does a gentle man or a sensitive man get extra points?
Does a passionate man with an extraordinary personality get chosen more often? In the final analysis, for those women who find that nothing short of being immersed in a world of romantic love is acceptable are the women who experience emotional fulfillment, and reveal that the journey is worthwhile only when finding the right mate.
Seduce, Surrender and Enjoy the Relationship
Tara, a writer who is 42-year-old and never married, says that the dating scene is pathetic. “I have had one date in the past two years,” she confesses. “I miss the physical contact of a man, a man’s touch. I want a man who looks good with a great smile, who is intelligent and knows how to treat a woman.”
Mechla, a 39-year-old parole officer, says “I love southern men with a hard body and a nice smile. A man who smells good, with a decent conversation, who knows what he’s talking about. I want a man who’s sensitive, attentive and listens well. I just want to be seduced, surrender and enjoy!”
He's an Attractive Man But. . .Can He Do the Dishes?
Dr. Herb Samuels, consulting sexologist specializing in sexuality and professor of human sexuality at LaGuardia Community College says that women want not only a man who is attractive, but someone who is a compatible companion. “Can he comfort her when she needs that? Is he going to talk to her when she needs that? Samuels says. "The last thing a woman wants is a man who looks good and doesn’t have a brain.
"Women want a man they can talk to. The stereo type about women that are seeking men who have either experience or money is somewhat exaggerated in our society today. Essentially women want a man who will simply pick up his clothes and do the dishes.”
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