Once partners have moved through all levels of Ecstatic Sex: Beginning Stages they are ready to move on to the intermediate steps. By this stage partners should be experiencing a sense of safety, joy, trust, and a growing deep and intimate connection with each other. They have made a commitment to only have ecstatic sex and have followed the ground rules to begin it. They have learned to be playful together, heal each other's hearts and bodies, and have found pleasure in validating each other in a loving way. Already, it becomes evident that joy is being laid at the foundation of their "love lives" (since it is no longer about their sex lives). As they move through the intermediate and advanced stages of ecstatic sex, bliss can only follow.
Intermediate Stages of Ecstatic Sex
- Cleaning up each partner's energy body.
- Deepening the intimate bond with one another.
- Opening up the energy gateways of each partner.
- Sustaining sexual pleasure.
What is most important to understand is that the above steps are designed to both lift the vibrational and energetic levels of each partner, and to blend them more thoroughly together. At this stage individuals must make a deeper commitment to this entire process or it simply will not work. As stated before, an orgasm is a blending of two people's energy fields. Toxic orgasms happen when that blend becomes polluted with selfish motivations for having sex. And, as mentioned already, since ecstatic sex is a deeply intimate process, it requires commitment and sexual monogomy to achieve.
Goals for the Intermediate Levels
What, in general, will couples experience at the intermediate stages that they did not at the beginning ones? To begin with their love making will be exactly that, love making! The reasons for this are simple. At intermediate levels each partner will be learning about and experiencing increasingly real love with each other and in their lives. They will also be having orgasms that feel both more intense and more refined. A vibrant hum of energy will be sent increasingly through the entire body of each partner. Instead of orgasm feeling like a movement of energy upwards (for the woman) or downwards (for the man), it will feel like a pulsing wave rippling increasingly throughout the entire body.
The Nutritional and Biochemical Value of Ecstatic Sex
And, because the glands of the body will be directly impacted during love making (particularly the thymus, pituitary, and pineal glands of the body), each partner will become more likely to experience an inner warmth moving throughout the body (especially the chest), and be open to sensations of light.
(Note: Visions may also occur, which will be explained in articles to come). In short, they will finally know the nutritional value of ecstatic sex and directly experience how it tends to stabilize them spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and even physically. Having reached this level it will be next to impossible for partners to ever want junk food sex again, and if they are forced to have it, it will feel increasingly dissatisfying, inclining partners to not ever want it anymore.
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